Coaching for Individuals

The Un-Storied Self™ Work: Shadow Integration Coaching for Individuals and Small Groups

This work explores how we seem to keep repeating the same old patterns in life, and why seemingly unimportant conflicts seem to trigger strong emotional responses. In individual or small group meetings, and through discussion, creative exercises, narrative journey work, and mindfulness, we will explore the stories we believe to be true about ourselves and the world, and seeing through those to who you really are (all of who you are), creating more wellness and authentic relationships in your life.


“Using the new tools you’ve taught us has helped me start to live a less stressful and more peaceful life. Thank you for being such an inspiration.” – A., NY

“I have been telling myself a story from an experience I had recently that I was feeling bad about and trying to understand and justify myself when I realized the wound, not feeling good enough. It hit me hard in a good way and I felt the conflict within myself dissipate and what was left was a peacefulness that I am so much more then this story and it so doesn’t matter.” – M., NY

“As a transitioning teacher, I sought out the support of Dr. Miller to help with my career goals  through two ‘Minding the Story’ workshops. In a small group of three career transitioners, Dr. Miller facilitated a warm, introspective experience where we were asked to describe who we are without using adjectives. This was a really tricky experience because at this point in my life, it is ‘who am I’ that I am trying to discover. Dr. Miller gently guided our group to think about the story or character we have created in order to tap into who we truly are inside our true essence. I am much more equipped to see the stories  and characters at play in my life and through the ‘Unstorying’ process that Dr. Miller has opened up an opportunity for me to confront these stories and characters so that I am living in the story or character that is aligned with my true self. I look forward to continuing this work.” 
– D., CA


To sign up for an individual session, please go to: https://calendly.com/mindingthestory

Or, please feel free to fill out the contact and question form on the “Who Am I?” page.